Well, you do need to hear his side. I agree on that part. I think it’s brave that you confessed to him, though. Try to get a hold of him if you can.
Well at least you’re in the right mindset with not wanting to get back with this person. Often, when we look back at relationships, the things we remember are the good things. We’re sad when we look back at relationships we’ve been in, and more than not, we romanticize what it was like. The key is to not do this. It doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t remember the good and the bad, but instead that we need to take the good with the bad. We can’t solely remember something great that he used to do without remembering that there were also negative things in the relationship. Clarifying this will honestly help with trying not to go back to him. You don’t want to get back with this person. You don’t. Not with someone who treats you poorly.
Honey. You got him to ask you to prom. YOU. He asked YOU. Not HER. That says something. Who cares if someone is flirting with him or flirting with him around you? He wants to take YOU. He is YOURE CRUSH. and HE ASKED YOU TO PROM. Say yes….. Try to ignore girls like that, who flirt just to get on people’s nerves, or who just flirt because it’s something fun to do.
That’s rough. I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him it was the wrong timing and see if you want to try again or not, but respect his decision if he doesn’t want to. Be open and just see if this is the right timing or not.
I mean it’s completely up to you if you want to try again with this person. If you’re not sure of your own feelings, try and figure those out before you do anything drastic.
It’s not stupid at all! That’s good. It’s normal to freak out and be happy! Good for you :D
I won’t publish it don’t worry. If you still want advice you can message me separately and I’ll respond privately (no judgment goes on from me and I am totally approachable about things like that).