Anonymous asked:

I met this guy at a party and I really like him. My friend said beforehand that he's gay, but at the party he let me sit on his knee and we were cuddling together and talking all the time. My friend joked afterwards about how she thinks I've turned him straight because we were both almost flirting with each other and I'm not too sure where I stand right now...(We're both almost 16 btw)

Well, I don’t know how he’d respond to you just asking blatantly. Don’t follow the stereotype that all gay men follow the stereotype. People like who they like no matter how the act, or they dislike who they dislike. The only way to know is to ask to be honest.

Anonymous asked:

I need advice. I've been dating this guy for a while now and I really love him. But recently I've had feelings for an old friend of mine. I love them both and don't want to make the wrong decision. What do you think I should do?

I think that if you’re dating a guy, just dating, not exclusive, then I guess maybe you could try things out. But if you’re committed or in any way serious, then don’t go for it. Also, don’t go for it because you think the other person will like magically be better than the guy you like now. I wouldn’t call it love if you’re thinking of seeing someone else. I understand platonic love, but you know you love someone when the thought of being with anyone else never crosses your mind.

Anonymous asked:

I have the boy who is like one of my really close friends, we talk every night and knows basically everything there is to know about me & vis versa. Lately he's become a lot more protective over me, he's said things to other boys if they've upset& everything. He's told me i have nice legs and in the past has said 'love it when girls have really nice legs' also my friends&me went camping&we slept next to eachother. I don't like him i like someone else... I don't understand our relationship! Do u?

Um, I think that he likes you, from what you said, I mean it’s sort of endearing that people like you and are protective of you. If you don’t like him, I think you should tell him, because he might think you’re leading him on.

Anonymous asked:

Thanks for the FAQ tip. Sorry that I'm being a pain in the ass, but should I give up on him? It's like, we're really perfect for eachother (that's what I've been told) but at the moment we can't date because of some things. In like a couple of months we might be able to go a little further.

If you think it’s worth it, then stay with him. If you don’t, then leave. It doesn’t matter what you’ve been told. It matters how you feel. If people say you’re perfect for each other but you don’t think you are, then follow your instinct. Don’t let other people tell you how you should feel.

Anonymous asked:

So I have a boyfriend but for some reason I'm getting these feelings like I miss my ex boyfriend nd well my new boyfriend right now he's is so sweet nd perfect like the best boyfriend I've ever had nd I don't know why I'm missing my ex what should I do

Honestly, and I wish this wasn’t true, a lot of people do this. Once they find someone they like or even love, they go back and remember all the good times about their past relationships. They remember how that other person made them feel, and then they compare it to how the person their with makes them feel, and if it’s the same, not necessarily worse or better, but the same feeling, they romanticize the past. They think that in their memories, the other person made them feel more or better or happier than the person their with currently does, even if it’s not true. I would tell you that you shouldn’t leave your boyfriend for your ex. It won’t be as magical as you imagine it to be and people will just end up getting hurt. If you realize you don’t like your boyfriend, then break it off, but don’t do that because you think your ex will treat you better.

Anonymous asked:

I met this boy who is my age and we are in the same grade. We first started talking at a basketball camp, we would walk to lunch together, sit together, I started to like him, and I found out he likes me too! The problem is that now I dont get the chance to talk to him a lot and when I do Idk how to start a conversation, any tips on conversation starters? Thanks!! Xoxo

Well, I think that since you’ve talked to this boy before, considering that you’ve hung out etc., it shouldn’t be that hard for you to start a conversation with him. I would tell him you miss seeing him and maybe you want to catch up. It’s really important that you don’t start treating people differently once you find out you like each other. The person you fall for should be one of your best friends, don’t change anything because they like you for the person they got to converse with.

Anonymous asked:

i was wondering if you knew what this quote means 'if he doesn't scare the hell out of you, he's not the one' what does it mean when it says 'scare'? i love your blog btw

Well, shucks, color me flattered. I think that it could be interpreted in many ways. I think the head on way of looking at it is more like, he should scare you. And I don’t agree with that. You shouldn’t be scared of the one you love. But I also think there’s a different way to look at it, like, if it doesn’t scare you that he could walk out of your life at any moment. But I think that’s a slanted way of looking at it. Altogether, I don’t really agree with this quote. You should be comfortable with whomever you’re with. You shouldn’t be scared of losing them because you know that they won’t ever wake up one day and decide to feel differently about you.

Anonymous asked:

Thursday night, I snapchatted my crush from senior year in high school (I'm a college freshman now). Her snapchat story was "someone help me with this pls" with a pic of math homework. I sent her a snap saying I could help and I was surprised she replied. After I helped her, she asked how college was and stuff and we talked for a bit. [Part 1/2]

Continued: I don’t really have any major feelings but just surprised she let me help her let alone talk about our personal lives after. Do you think it means anything? She knows I liked her and I think she liked me but I kinda messed up (long story).

I mean, anything is possible. I think that if you two were once close, it’s not unusual for them to open up to you. I would say that since you two are presumably going to separate colleges (or she’s still in high school?) that it’s not really going to work out though…. Long distance is hard to maintain and generally doesn’t work too well….

Anonymous asked:

I have a crush on this junior (im a sophomore) and i want to get his attention by looking my best at school. But i have 0 self confidence. Ive had issues with body image and self hatred before so its really hard to compare myself to the other girls he talks to who are skinny tall and gorgeous. I guess what im asking is whats a tip for faking lots of confidence even if you dont actually have any...

Fake it until you make it. Wear clothes you feel confident and beautiful in. Being confident doesn’t mean that you want to look better than everyone else, it means that you don’t care what other people think of you because you like the way you are. Who needs other people’s opinions? We have a weirdly morphed view of beauty anyway due to society having its head up its ass. You are beautiful. The moment you decide to see yourself as beautiful, that’s the moment your life will change. My high school was filled with skinny, tall, and gorgeous girls as well. And it sucked. I knew I would never look like them, because I am not them. So I wore clothes I loved and I walked down the halls like I owned them. I smiled at everyone and did what I wanted. And people started to notice, I got compliments all of a sudden, but that didn’t matter, because I gave 0 shits about what they thought about me. I loved me, and that’s what mattered.