Anonymous asked:

hey ; i have never had my first kiss before & i feel like my boyfriend is going to want to kiss me but i dont know how ! any advice ? thanks

That’s sweet that you have a boyfriend and you haven’t kissed yet. That’s new. As a forewarning, most first kisses are bad. No matter how experienced either person is. If you’ve never kissed someone before it feels weird and you’re left wondering if you’re doing it wrong. Because it doesn’t feel like the movies or whatever. Kissing is like air hockey. No ones really good at it. What makes a kiss is the passion behind it. Because it’s like you’re kissing someone you really enjoy being with. You’re somehow one for a little time. And you get the taste of their lips stuck on your tongue and it’s something you will always be left with. So just relax. Don’t worry about what you’re doing with your lips. Don’t shove your tongue down their throat (lol my first kiss dude did this to me and just don’t do it, it’s not enjoyable). Don’t over think about it. Just let things go with the flow.

Anonymous asked:

How do you know when a girl likes you?

When I like someone, I try to spend lots of time with the person I like. I’m a little shy, so sometimes I might be awkward talking to you. But other times, if we’re friends and I’m comfortable, I will definitely flirt. I’ll find excuses to touch your hand or shoulder and I’ll try to smile and laugh a lot. I will wear clothes I think I look good in and I will probably want will want to talk to you all the time.

Anonymous asked:

Okay. There's this guy who I've liked for 4 years and he's liked me for 4 years and we've asked eachother out and stuff but nothing's come of it and I'm beginning to feel like I constantly NEED to be with or around him. I talk to him a bit over imessage and he's just amazing. We're in like a group and our friends keep trying to hook us up but nothing really happens. I really don't know what to do because we are both VERY stubborn when it comes to this.. HELP PLEASE. TELL ME WHAT TO DO.

If you both like each other then I don’t understand what the issue is. Just ask the bloke out. It’s not that big a deal.

Anonymous asked:

I like this guy but he isn't in any of my classes and I tend to be really icey to people I like (I don't know why) A lot of his friends are in my classes but I am too embarrased to talk to them and I know it's confusing and I'm sorry ( /) - (\ )

I would just start talking to him. I mean sure, friends of crushes are cool to talk to as well, but just be nice and friendly. If he’s cold don’t take it personally. Some people are like that and it’s best to let them be. Don’t try to change them if it’s in their nature.

Anonymous asked:

When I was in a relationship, I developed sudden (and strong) feelings for another person. I did not let it affect my current relationship and just went with it. Eventually, me and my partner broke up but my former love still has feelings for me which devastates me for I cannot reciprocate such feelings (not anymore, anyway). I am planning to proceed with this new love even though it defies all logic (I am prepared to get hurt if ever I will get rejected). Is this wrong?

It’s not wrong. I don’t think so anyway. You might not feel anything now but you could. People change. But make sure you don’t just lead the guy on. That’s wrong.

Anonymous asked:

So my crush's bday was today and i gave him a bday card after school. His reaction was good but kinda embarrassing to see him after this bcs of smth i wrote in the card: "so, can i be your friend?" Omg do u think its alright for me to write that?

I think it’s a little odd to ask to be someone’s friend in a birthday card. I’d frankly just hang out and talk etc. instead of asking about it. Sadly we’re not in kindergarten anymore. You don’t just ask to be friends with people and then go off and play house. Friendships are formed over experiences.

Anonymous asked:

nobody has ever been interested in my romantically and i'm about to be a senior in high school. I've been in love with the same guy for 6 years and we don't even talk anymore, but I still love him...we never even dated, but I always had a strong connection to him. I was totally friendzoned by him. What is wrong with me. I haven't even had my first kiss or anything. I can't get over this guy like I really do love him, and I don't want to date some loser just beause.

Well. I understand all of that. Don’t date someone just because, but also understand that there’s nothing wrong with you. I don’t think you can really have a connection or a romantic relationship with someone if you’ve never dated or if you’ve never talked or don’t talk a lot. I don’t think you can love someone you don’t know. I think you can like someone you don’t know. But not love. There’s nothing wrong with you. My advice is to stop searching for love. People don’t find love if they look for it. It’s unexpected. Usually with someone you never thought you’d end up falling for.

Anonymous asked:

Hello lately I feel like my bestfriend has become someone I can't share my problems with. I feel like I can't tell her when I hurt or when I'm experiencing something personal. I feel like I should give her her space but I don't understand why I should because she was literally my world a day ago. I don't know what to do.

I think that you should have talk with her about how you’re feeling. The best you can do is put how you feel out there. If she’s your best friend she should want to listen to what your experiencing and be able to talk it out with you.